0800 What’s Up
Āta Whakarongo - Be Heard
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Empowering children is central to our counselling practice. We help to develop a child or teenager’s personal competence and resilience, so they can take a positive perspective on the world around them.
‘Child-centred practice’ underpins everything we do. We:
Listen and respect what children have to say
Focus on their needs
See the world from their perspective
Know that the child is the primary client
See the child as an individual
Respect the child
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0800 What’s Up is run by Barnardos New Zealand. We’re a free, nationally-available counselling helpline and webchat service for children and teenagers.
For the past 19 years our counsellors have been helping callers to find solutions to their problems, equipping them with the tools they need to deal with situations now and in the future.
From 2021
Our counsellors have taken 1.6m calls and 29000 web chats.
Young people call us for many reasons. Last year, the top five were:
Mental Health – callers told us of their concerns for their own or someone else’s mental health. Topics included anxiety, feeling down or depressed, self-harm, being clinically diagnosed with a mental illness or disorder and medication.
Family relationships – callers talked to us about issues with their caregivers and siblings, extended family and whānau.
Relationships - we took calls about problems with friends, peer pressure, making friends, friendship breakdowns and concerns for a friend’s wellbeing.
Dating – many callers told us of problems with boyfriends or girlfriends and sexual issues.
Bullying – callers told us about their experiences of deliberate emotional and physical harassment at school or at home and online bullying.
Our counsellors
Our counsellors are trained professionals.
Many of the children and teenagers who call us are trusting an adult with their problems for the first time. Some will form an ongoing relationship with our counsellors, who’ll provide stable and reliable support when the caller needs it.
All our conversations are confidential
So don't worry you can talk to us about anything, we won't judge and you won't get in trouble.
About anything - it's free.
No issue is too small or too big for our trained counsellors – reach out if you need to be heard and would like some support to deal with what’s on your mind.
We’re here for all children and teenagers in Aotearoa
You can ask to speak with a male, female or gender diverse counsellor and you can ask to speak to the same counsellors you spoke to last time – so you don’t have to repeat yourself!
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A safe place for you to talk about anything at all
Loss - Grief is a strong feeling of sadness
Making friends - Some people have lots of friends and others have just a few.
Embarrassment - There are lots of reasons that someone might feel embarrassed
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A safe place for you to talk about anything at all
Bullying - Bullying is when someone deliberately does something to hurt or upset you
Cyber bullying - With cyber bullying, you can feel like you’re never going to get away from it.
Depression - Depression is feelings down for a long time and the intense feeling doesn't go away
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